Then why don’t you say “screw you” to trauma be a good person?

I had a friend years ago who suffered trauma for years before I met her and said something she didn’t like and over the weeks after that she revealed to me she had become a bad person because of this trauma in her life. The weird thing is she forgave the person who was responsible for this trauma when noone in her family did.

I understand. After a lifetime of trying to do the "right" thing I don't anymore

That's a sad thing about those who wish to follow society.

Society defines what is bad or good.

Better to make your own definitions.

Don't worry so much about what has gone before, just be a good person, the best you can, from today forward.

I highly doubt you're as bad as you think. 🙂 let's try and have an uplifting day

Perhaps a life coach could help?

Why do you think you're a bad person?