So I end up withdrawing from people alot or keeping my distance because I'm afraid they'll see me as needy or I'll annoy them. I know its not usually the case, but it's still in my mind.
@PhoenixPhail that's so correct. I'll begin being more brave towards my needs not being met even when I ask for them, failure in a sense...to be more liberated from the outcome... And hence be more comfortable to ask about them....