Insecurities

I really hate it when my insecurities attack me. And what hurts more is your partner can no longer understand it and think you're just being OA. because they don't have insecurities they accepted their flaws but you're not the samw. It's hard fighting insecurities especially when it attack you suddenly. What should i do?

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Bennyfromthevoid · 26-30, M

I’m sorry your going through that. I used to struggle a lot with my confidence And to be honest I still do sometimes, but you Just gotta fall in love with yourself again and focus on what you’re doing right and stop making comparisons. You only get one you, don’t tear yourself down they’ll be plenty of people who wanna do that already and those people do not matter one bit

ihavenoone · 31-35, F

@Bennyfromthevoid thank you. I really feel like I'm just being sensitive and this do not matter because there's real problem in the world l. I know real life but there's just inside me attacking me and eating me.

MURD3RM0NK3Y · 26-30, M

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Montanaman · M

Can you briefly tell me what insecurities exactly? Or are the random and general?

ihavenoone · 31-35, F

@Montanaman it's a lot. Like my scars and everything like I'm not enough and no one understand me because I'm really hard to handle and I'm very sensitive.

Montanaman · M

@ihavenoone One of The most beautiful and priceless of all jewels...Emeralds.
They have flaws that make them unique and you know that they're genuine. Not some lab created beauty.
You're scars are the same. They're part of you, yet don't define who you are, but complement who you've become.

You're more than enough. You're 32 flavors and then some.

Hard to handle, because you're sensitive and alive with feelings. One should study you. I know i would. I'd dedicate hours, days, weeks, months, years, to learn exactly who my partner is, and what i could do to enhance our relationship. Thing is, she knows exactly who she is, and that's perfect.

Make no excuses to anyone about who you are, and your insecurities will simply disappear, like whisps of steam in the air.

-The wisdom according to Montana🤗🥰😎

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