They say everyone grieves differently but I've got a boundary at this point.
I'm just not willing to even associate with people who if I tell them I'm grieving over a mutual friend then you know, decide that THEY knew them so much better than me and that I'm either faking it or don't have a right to feel the way I do about shit. I can grieve whatever the fuck I want, back off Karen.
if I reach out to you for a single moment of solace and comfort to consol each other over the mutual loss and your response is to push me away because you feel you knew them so much better then GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY LIFE IMMEDIATELY.
I'm so finished with people's shit man. Like all the lies about Grief and the fact that people seem to hoard there's as though the closeness is even relevant. There's a True Crime story that still makes me a wreck to this day, and I've never even spoken to either of the Victims. Sophie Lancaster's case if you're wondering.
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Recently told people to donate money to the Lancaster foundation in my name for my birthday.
No such limits exist- Empathy makes all things possible emotion wise. sometimes I wish I could turn mine off. But Honestly when we both lost a friend and you try to tell me that I don't have a right to that grief or fuck you I knew them so much better I want to plant a knife in your back in revenge. Get. the. Fuck. Out. of. My. Life. and STAY GONE FOREVER.
This is a boundary, and I'm now enforcing it anything less than a fully empathetic response rather than grief hoarding and sulking is UNACCEPTABLE. I will NOT TOLERATE IT. anyone who does it, We're finished. That's it. you're cut off, for good.
Fair warning. I don't give A FUCK if you feel I'm intruding on yours. Anything less than Empathy, and I will kick you to the fucking curb, so help me god.
https://forums.grieving.com/topic/13066-5-lies-you-were-told-about-grief/
I have a right to feel whatever the fuck I feel. If you don't like it you can just leave. There's the fucking door, and don't make me get a Shot gun, because I will force the issue if you don't.
truly I could not care less that you feel I intruded on your grief, I have the right to feel whatever I feel and if you don't like that just fuck off and die already.
[media=https://youtu.be/gmpn4F1nE74]
This case has impacted me emotionally through multiple relationships. Heart breaks and everything. it's like a wound that wll not heal.
the most recent of the bridges I burnt were done for this reason. No more. I was not meant to endure these losses alone in silence and if you will not be there for me over our mutual loss then I will deny you the pleasure of my company ever again.
me blocking her was the warning shot, I'm finished with this kind of shit. Anyone does it to me again that's it.
Enjoy Suffering Alone, Bitch. People need to know Not to treat me like that when I come seeking comfort over a mutual loss.
if I reach out to you for a single moment of solace and comfort to consol each other over the mutual loss and your response is to push me away because you feel you knew them so much better then GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY LIFE IMMEDIATELY.
I'm so finished with people's shit man. Like all the lies about Grief and the fact that people seem to hoard there's as though the closeness is even relevant. There's a True Crime story that still makes me a wreck to this day, and I've never even spoken to either of the Victims. Sophie Lancaster's case if you're wondering.
[media=https://youtu.be/lYLqVpC9fiY]
Recently told people to donate money to the Lancaster foundation in my name for my birthday.
No such limits exist- Empathy makes all things possible emotion wise. sometimes I wish I could turn mine off. But Honestly when we both lost a friend and you try to tell me that I don't have a right to that grief or fuck you I knew them so much better I want to plant a knife in your back in revenge. Get. the. Fuck. Out. of. My. Life. and STAY GONE FOREVER.
This is a boundary, and I'm now enforcing it anything less than a fully empathetic response rather than grief hoarding and sulking is UNACCEPTABLE. I will NOT TOLERATE IT. anyone who does it, We're finished. That's it. you're cut off, for good.
Fair warning. I don't give A FUCK if you feel I'm intruding on yours. Anything less than Empathy, and I will kick you to the fucking curb, so help me god.
https://forums.grieving.com/topic/13066-5-lies-you-were-told-about-grief/
I have a right to feel whatever the fuck I feel. If you don't like it you can just leave. There's the fucking door, and don't make me get a Shot gun, because I will force the issue if you don't.
truly I could not care less that you feel I intruded on your grief, I have the right to feel whatever I feel and if you don't like that just fuck off and die already.
[media=https://youtu.be/gmpn4F1nE74]
This case has impacted me emotionally through multiple relationships. Heart breaks and everything. it's like a wound that wll not heal.
the most recent of the bridges I burnt were done for this reason. No more. I was not meant to endure these losses alone in silence and if you will not be there for me over our mutual loss then I will deny you the pleasure of my company ever again.
me blocking her was the warning shot, I'm finished with this kind of shit. Anyone does it to me again that's it.
Enjoy Suffering Alone, Bitch. People need to know Not to treat me like that when I come seeking comfort over a mutual loss.
