Is grief the price of love, or is it the proof that love was real?

A close friend of mine passed away in an accident. His wife is inconsolable, completely shattered by the loss. I don’t know what words can truly comfort her. All I can do is stay by her side and let her know she isn’t alone. Beyond that, I’m unsure what else I can do.

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Docdon23 · M

Time. grief takes time. Sometimes it diminishes, sometimes not. My wife passed away over three years ago--the grief started while she was still alive but hospitalized after a stroke, but it took a year. I have friends who have lost spouses after long marriages, some adjust and move on, some never do and remain sad and depressed. Listening is the best thing you can do, and gentle comfort, helping them feel safe and loved.

Renkon · M

@Docdon23 Those are truly wise words. I hope time heals. Thank you.