These bullies and trollers are making us quit this app

My sweet friend has now left from this place and i hope it's temporary.

She and I share the same viewpoint that some people here run their gangs and attack specific people simply by being nasty.

If you are the nasty one who bullies people understand that you are so insecure and broken from within that you lack self confidence and self identity.

If your real life is fcked up then work on it instead of targeting good people out here.

Today my sister told me that she always knew me for being calm but ever since i have joined this platform I have started losing my cool.

A lot of good users have quit . A lot of good people went away. This place is toxic because there is no action taken against these bullies.

Trust me you bullies you are living in a bubble and you are delusional to have self pride and superiority complex. The fact is your real life is so screwed up that you take out your frustration here on the good people. Because in your real life you are nothing but a loser and you feel power only behind the screen.

Beyond a point I won't take it too and quit.

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SW-User

It is one of the reasons I keep within the peripheries of SW and don't get invested in people and groups of friendships. I learned it the hard way to do that. Otherwise you can get caught up in other peoples nastiness and somehow made the criminal just because you happened to share the same spot.
Sorry your friend left. I once left for something like that too. It is a good idea to keep away when it is painful.

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SomeMichGuy · M

@SW-User That's so sad.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@SW-User It's hard sometimes. I keep a friend here, I hear a lot of unwanted expressions to me from her. They are nasty, angry at times. It does not jibe with me, but I also know she needs her expressions. I wonder if its the nature of anonymity, we can express more in some ways we never feel we can, but then close up as when we really need that support it's hard to really see them?

SW-User

@thewindupbirdchronicles I believe anonymity has a big role to play in it because it takes away some accountability hiding behind a screen.
But I also believe that a lot of nastiness goes behind the scene, so to speak, on PM's, elsewhere. People gossip and spread lies, sometimes might even be the truth but in an inflamed manner and suddenly there is a group attack on someone who might not know what hit them. It can be traumatic. On the front of it, these people remain good and grand but there are many who do a lot of damage to others because it is just how they operate.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@SW-User Yes, I couldn't agree more. I've seen people bully up on here. I have talked with people who have felt they have a group of people attacking them. And what is sad, some let it affect them so far they get angry with those who try to help, because trust has been broken. I have a friend on here, no matter what words I give her, she will never trust me and will focus on how some have hurt her. It's sad.

SW-User

@thewindupbirdchronicles I understand her fear. Sometimes so many people can betray you, it is hard to know who won't.

thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@SW-User I understand that too, but sometimes it feels self defeating, holding up an armour that no one can get behind that harms yourself. But I do understand.

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thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M

@SW-User It's someone on here, so I keep my words slim, but it stems from abuse.

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