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These bullies and trollers are making us quit this app

My sweet friend has now left from this place and i hope it's temporary.

She and I share the same viewpoint that some people here run their gangs and attack specific people simply by being nasty.

If you are the nasty one who bullies people understand that you are so insecure and broken from within that you lack self confidence and self identity.

If your real life is fcked up then work on it instead of targeting good people out here.

Today my sister told me that she always knew me for being calm but ever since i have joined this platform I have started losing my cool.

A lot of good users have quit . A lot of good people went away. This place is toxic because there is no action taken against these bullies.

Trust me you bullies you are living in a bubble and you are delusional to have self pride and superiority complex. The fact is your real life is so screwed up that you take out your frustration here on the good people. Because in your real life you are nothing but a loser and you feel power only behind the screen.

Beyond a point I won't take it too and quit.
4meAndyou · F
One thing I have found, which makes this site quite lovely for me, is that I have about 5000 blocks available with my membership. It is so useful! When I see someone being horrible to my friends, or if I don't like the things they write, I just block them.

It saves me from getting all worked up.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@4meAndyou that’s a good solution but the problem as of lately is people seem to be using new accounts and not disclosing who they are. While they’re going around bullying people, making mean nasty unnecessary comments giving the impression that they’re new users when they aren’t
4meAndyou · F
@DeluxedEdition I still have 5000 blocks. A new a$$ can be blocked just as easily as an old a$$. 🤣🤣🤣 My work never ends...🤣
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SW-User
It is one of the reasons I keep within the peripheries of SW and don't get invested in people and groups of friendships. I learned it the hard way to do that. Otherwise you can get caught up in other peoples nastiness and somehow made the criminal just because you happened to share the same spot.
Sorry your friend left. I once left for something like that too. It is a good idea to keep away when it is painful.
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@SW-User It's someone on here, so I keep my words slim, but it stems from abuse.
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I refuse to block people, so it can be a difficult place at times.

What I see are people who come here every day and post/comment. Across a whole range of topics. These are people who are just being human, as this is what we do in real life with people. Talk and share a lot of things.

And I see other people who may be regulars, but they just dog certain people, and police certain subjects, topics, issues— and attack people.

I also see people who seem to just appear from no where, coming from some deep orbit like a comet, to furiously post on a single theme, attack people sharing certain things— and then they disappear again. I’ve looked at the language and style of some of these characters, and I can’t help but wonder if they are the same person(s).
@SW-User Same here. I met my partner here in fact.
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@CopperCicada Well observed. Language and style is telling, like a fingerprint.
I think you're right, Lushi.
I notice the categories to flag (alert management) are limited in number, so one can't find a category such as "this post bullies someone other than myself". Or "this post is obviously rude and offensive and would be to most people."
This morning I've seen some disgusting comments towards someone because they disagreed with her (respectfully worded) reply to a question.
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@SW-User ditto
SW-User
yup they're the reason why i always warn ppl to never be more invested into this site than you would to a weekly gossip magazine
@SW-User THAT's a good rule of thumb!
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@SW-User whoever she was she either deleted the account or blocked me 😳
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DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@SW-User she’s exactly what I’m talking about a fake alt account that goes around (her account isn’t necessarily a bully or harassing anyone) but that account goes around making smart ass remarks at everything

I’m overly suspicious at all of the new accounts and the statuses being posted about people by others who supposedly have them blocked
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SW-User
You sound angry. Use the block button liberally.
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ABCDEF7 · M
I can understand that, but why these people mostly target females only?
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Why they are doing so?
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Got it
Greyjedi · M
Some of my friends have left the site too and I too have been attacked. Keep the cool, your mind and tongue are skyscraper and bullies and trolls are ants.
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posts like this is exactly what a bully wants
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FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
Block them.
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FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F
@SW-User Yep. They know this, those bullies. Like when my aunt was flashed by a guy in a parking lot, he wanted a reaction. She started laughing and said, oh, isn't that cute. Guy ran off.
Please don't.
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@SW-User WOW...*SOOOO* much better!

Does it feel a bit better? It LOOKS so much more healthy; I'm relieved!

[Or did you just get makeup on your leg? 😉]
who is your friend
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You are right. There are many bullies here that can dish it out but they can’t take it.

They act like bullies but when you give it back to them they whine and cry. It’s pathetic and I hope your friend will come back.
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