Is that a boy or a girl?

My very shy, anxious, and self conscious 13 year old got a very beautiful pixie cut yesterday, however, she was walking her dog, Pippin, last night, and got heckled by a bunch of lads "hey, are you a dude, guy, bloke, is that a boy"?
She completely froze, then she told me she shouted back, "today I'm an apache elf"
Couldn't have been more proud of her!
Guys, we're going on vacay tonight, can you suggest more savage comebacks if she gets asked again by spud munchers who are pathetic tossers? It really will give her that confidence boost!

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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Good for her. Why do kids have to be so mean.

Dusty101 · F

@iamonfire696 because they are little shits that think it's funny... I hate them.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Dusty101 I hate them too, I have taught my kids to not be bullied. Kids mimic their parents. The same kids that bullied me as a child their kids have bullied my oldest. The school is pretty good about cutting that behaviour out and I have told the parents I will not hesitate to get a restraining order.

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@iamonfire696 @Dusty101 Exactly. It's not even the kids' fault, it's their parents'. Do not assume that just because you two are good parents, everyone else is. God, this is exactly why I hate people. And @Dusty101 I don't know her and I'm not even a parent myself but I'm very proud of your little one🖤

Dusty101 · F

@SW-User aweeee, thank you... You have sincerely touched my heart! 💕❤️

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Dusty101 · F

@iamonfire696 omg, with all my heart and soul I genuinely care what happened to the victims you knew of bullying. It is never dealt with properly and causes so much death and anxiety. People unite together when there's a natural disaster. And hidden bully's help in that disaster. Why can't they be helpful and unite together to be kind and not full of verbal hate. They do have the ability to stop. They just don't want to. Horrible f******.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Dusty101 I have been bullied here and it reminds me of high school. I will never understand why people need to act this way and it’s worse for kids because they do not process things the same as an adult would.

I have mentioned these things to bullies here and I was told I am just trying to make them feel bad. Yes, yes I am. If you can read this and keep acting the way you do then there’s no help for you. These are not the only instances I know of, they are just people close to me.

Your daughter is strong but what those boys are doing is absolute shit. You know there’s people that would say that those boys are picking on her because they like her. So we are teaching girls and teens that it’s okay for boys/teens to treat them like garbage from the get go?

Sorry this subject just gets to me and my heart hurts for you and your daughter 💖.

Dusty101 · F

@iamonfire696 we need more people like you to make a stand! 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Dusty101 I just wish more people would stand up to it anywhere no matter who it’s happening too. I am glad she has you. She’s a strong youth and those boys parents should be ashamed of themselves.