I Am a Bully

Apparently so. 😮 I got called one earlier today, ironically by someone who's done some borderline bullying here. 🙄 Don't you just love it when people call you things like a hypocrite or a bully yet they can never seem to explain how you are? It's like, do they even know what those words mean or are they just projecting things other people call them? (since they do tend to be guilty of being one themselves)

That person who called me that does like having a go at me in my posts, which often leads to me telling them off and putting them in their place. Perhaps they called me a bully because they feel like they're being bullied by me when that happens? 🤦‍♀️ If that's the case, I don't know what to tell them. Don't come in my posts talking shit and they'll never have to worry about me "bullying" them. 🤷‍♀️

I can be pretty savage with those who get cross with me but usually only with those who go stirring up trouble with me first. I admit I do have my bad days where I can be bitchy and none too pleasant. That can probably leave a really bad first impression with someone about me but I'm pretty sure I don't make a habit out of insulting, belittling or tormenting others for my own amusement. 😕

But what do you think, am I ever a bully to people?

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

Everyone's definition of the word bully varies and depends greatly on where they sit in the situation. I've been called a bully on more than one occasion by people in debate situations. In that situation, I look at it like someone stepping into a fight ring and then complaining that you hit them.

If someone comes talking smack to you, and you then smack them to the ground, you are not being a bully.

Carver · 31-35, F

@sarabee1995 Thank you! That’s exactly what that is. I’m not a bully, they’re just a pussy.