Massive anxiety attack

Don't let them bully you. If they do, never respond. When they learn how to treat you like you deserve, then you can communicate with them again and you should let them know that their behavior is not acceptable

That's bad. I've been there many times. And do you feel like you are out of energy, and just want to curl up and cry yourself to sleep?

The words bully and relatives don’t go together for me. It’s either one or the other.

If such people cause such trouble in my life I would just refuse to meet with them.