Anxiety and behavioural inconsistencies
To preface-I know people change according to lots of different things going on in their lives and they are perfectly entitled to do so.
I really, really struggle with somebody behaving a certain way towards me (and this is usually someone I really like or am fixated on-anxiety and ADHD together is a real pain! ☹️) and then suddenly seeming to change. Say a close friend has texted me every morning to wish me a good day and then suddenly doesn't. Things like that really throw me. As a result, I struggle to start new friendships etc with people and I can't really let myself get too close because it hurts every. single. time. I crave the kind of consistency that nobody can give. It's so silly and incosequential to be anxious about that, but yes... I hate my brain sometimes. ☹️
I really, really struggle with somebody behaving a certain way towards me (and this is usually someone I really like or am fixated on-anxiety and ADHD together is a real pain! ☹️) and then suddenly seeming to change. Say a close friend has texted me every morning to wish me a good day and then suddenly doesn't. Things like that really throw me. As a result, I struggle to start new friendships etc with people and I can't really let myself get too close because it hurts every. single. time. I crave the kind of consistency that nobody can give. It's so silly and incosequential to be anxious about that, but yes... I hate my brain sometimes. ☹️
26-30, F
