I Am Worried and Anxious

I never thought I'd say this...But I remember 1 year ago I had chatted with a girl either the same age or 1 year younger than me on here. I won't say what the picture we both sent were, but she had told me it would be okay (I was very unsure at the time) and that if she showed a picture of her then I would have to send one of myself (I hid my identity). But now at 18, I remember and realized something wasn't right about what we did. I've been looking for her on here to get in contact with her to tell her what we did was a mistake. But I can't find "M". So I have no clue what to do, I won't search anymore for now since there's more important stuff for me to finish. But it does suddenly hit me and get me anxious and worried at weird times. I just hope "M" messages me or I find her and message.

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Consider it a lesson. You likely won't see her again. And if it ever feels wrong, follow your instinct. Pictures never disappear on-line.

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

@PoetryNEmotion I know that. The reason why I'm trying to find her is to tell her that so she won't keep repeating it or sending pictures like that to other people. I've already considered it a lesson, I'm just worried.

SStarfish ·

@KandiGhostcat they probly werent even their pictures.. You shouldn't worry about them imo .. They might be sending or posting your picture elsewhere tho.. Thats the creepy thing

PoetryNEmotion · F

@KandiGhostcat Never worry about not hurting the other person-err on the side of caution. She likely will forget it and put it away. Worry accomplishes nothing. You learned. Go forward now.

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

@PoetryNEmotion I usually meant in other cases, not this one. More than likely she will forget, years ahead. But it's just the type of person I am, I sometimes will worry about others on here usually because some are mentally ill or whatever it is. I guess it comes across the same with her in someway. That I worry to the point I want to see if they're still there, okay, and safe. As well as help if it's necessary. Guess I wanted to help her understand why it wasn't okay and why it's best not to send stuff like that to others (as well as ask for it).

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

@SStarfish Pretty much anything you post people can use. Even all of our stories here, regardless of what Similar World says.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@KandiGhostcat Words are less damaging than photos, girl. And I doubt you will ever see her here again. It is commendable to want to help her.

KandiGhostcat · 22-25, F

@PoetryNEmotion She probably left SW maybe too. She was almost as active on here as I was. But I haven't seen her at all this year. So yeah, more than likely maybe she packed up and left SW, like some people do on here.