WanderingHelplessly · 51-55, M
Yes, it's normal
Iwillwait · M
Ditto
Considering they have the same set of working human emotions as everyone else i would say so. Everyone isn't automatically going to be super outgoing and confident. if life worked that way there'd never be any "underdogs" or success stories because everyone would just be the best at whatever they did. Some people just struggle sometimes and that's ok. It can take a while sometimes but that doesn't mean that the end result of the insecurity can't and won't change. As long as you are actively working to change it and not holding yourself and everyone around you hostage to it, forcing them to walk on eggshells i'd say you're ok🤷🏾♀
USAMade · 22-25, M
@DancingStarGoddess Unfortunately, I fell into the stigma that guys weren't supposed to let that kind of stuff get to them, like they were supposed to be always be strong and secure. I kinda did the opposite of holding everyone hostage to it, I bottled it up.
JovialMoose · 51-55, M
100%
What changed me was thinking "Nobody cares about me.... and that's ok."
I had to get out of my head thinking that nobody cared about me. It wasn't my place to be thinking what others are thinking and all of the time I'm thinking about that... I'm not thinking positively about others.
So... I had to do a mind-shift but I benefited in so many ways. I hope you figure it out earlier than I did.
What changed me was thinking "Nobody cares about me.... and that's ok."
I had to get out of my head thinking that nobody cared about me. It wasn't my place to be thinking what others are thinking and all of the time I'm thinking about that... I'm not thinking positively about others.
So... I had to do a mind-shift but I benefited in so many ways. I hope you figure it out earlier than I did.
USAMade · 22-25, M
@JovialMoose I really wanted to fit in during my school years but never felt like I did, most were so cool and talkative, and they looked a certain way, I really didn't.
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
I feel like that often and I'm 49 years old.
Of course. We all feel.
exexec · 70-79, C
It's normal. I had those feelings in several situations. I did the best I could to succeed, and it all seemed to work out.
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40
Completely normal. I'm willing to bet most, if not all, people feel that way at some point.
USAMade · 22-25, M
@TheRealBarbossa There was a girl in one of my high school classes who asked me if guys feel insecure, I said "Uhh...yeah", she seemed surprised.
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Musicman · 61-69, M
Absolutely it is! Sadly a lot of people don't have a good self image. ☹
BrandonWyatt36 · 41-45, M
If your talking about as far as getting "Rejected" By Women... You will get it over it eventually... I've been rejected so many times now when a Woman tells me no it ain't no Surprise and I don't even care and just move on LOL
USAMade · 22-25, M
@BrandonWyatt36 It's partly that, it's also just being accepted in general.












