I hate when people tell me I should go for therapy...
First of all, I'm a very specific person. I'm not a general cookie-cutter person and you can't just put me in a box. And second, I went to a therapist a long time ago and it was a disaster. He kept asking me a lot of questions over and over and he was so strict with the way everything was in his office. If I even picked up something on his coffee table, he would reach over and take it out of my hands and put it down in the exact same place where it was and told me not to hide behind things. Who does that? What does that even mean? And he would insist that I sit in a specific chair and if I moved or stood up, he complained that I moved around too much. And I was like, "Dude... you're too controlling." And this guy was trying to tell me how to live? No. I'm sick of the therapy comments. Those really, really, really bother me. Get therapy. Get therapy. It doesn't work for all people. It doesn't work. My needs are very specific.
And the funny and annoying thing is, I don't even really have social anxiety. So, there is that. Therapy is not going to help me. Right now, I'm feeling a lot less insecure about things, and I have more stability and my brain is maturing and I'm getting better and more secure in myself. And that's important for long-term relationships.
The person today who told me I should go to therapy also said I use the word "like" and the phrase, "yeah, but" too much.
And the funny and annoying thing is, I don't even really have social anxiety. So, there is that. Therapy is not going to help me. Right now, I'm feeling a lot less insecure about things, and I have more stability and my brain is maturing and I'm getting better and more secure in myself. And that's important for long-term relationships.
The person today who told me I should go to therapy also said I use the word "like" and the phrase, "yeah, but" too much.



