Whats love fought to do with it?

Love..getting fought for, getting angry about..being jealous over..can ANYBODY relate?
So,
Theres this guy i really liked .. well, i wanted him!..been crushing on him for i would say..about 3months now. He's
OBLIVIOUS to how I feel tho.
I wrote him love letters, left him personal hints, tips and poems, shared lots of foods with him.
I started to listen to his fav music, i started to indulge in OUR conversations..and all of a sudden..he brings HER up....i got so close to " knowing" him but all in vain.
He wrote a post hes , "now happily dating a girl whom he loves with all his heart"..yucky 👋 💕 i was wanting that guy for me..how unfair.
Has ANYBODY received a message like that?
I am a single person, searching for someone to like me, love me..love is to verify my existing life..yet hes now no longer in my head space.
If and when I tell you i like you, why did he reject me?
This always happens:
A good conversation, great dinner dates..then the wammy..they reject me for one of 3 reasons..
1.) My looks
2.) My finances
3.) My intellectually challenged mind
So im too much, not enough, or too broken to be mended..saddest day in my life..im now without a purpose to pursue..

being · 36-40, F

Aw I'm so sorry for that had happened. You have such an open and pure heart... I hope you will find your forever man, your intentions are clear and you look beautiful.
Perhaps I would say from what I read... Be more relaxed in the beginning. I know how it's so much easier said than done.. But better in the beginning to take it slow, I've been guilty of doing the same thing that's how I came to realise that!
Best of luck 🌅💞