Suicidal boyfriend

I've been planning on leaving my very rude boyfriend, however, I heard him say that he's still suicidal and has been thinking about it again recently. I know I've made some posts venting about his attitude, that aside, I once loved him so I still care a bit and don't want to add to his suicidal thoughts. He bought me a teddy to say thank you for being there for him, which is sweet. It doesn't change anything but now I'm depressed because leaving is what I'm working towards and this situation makes it more difficult.

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YoMomma ·

My husband used to go that when i was younger (threaten suicide if i left) 😬 it’s hard to tell if someone is serious or not about their threats or even if they are how much responsibility one should take for them 😬 technically it’s his own choice regardless of if you are there or not .. i guess the best thing is just give him an earful about everything make him take on some responsibility instead of just self pity especially if he is habitually inconsiderate of you and your own wellbeing 😳 its nice to have someone who cares tho tho some dudes are like spoiled cranky overgrown babies 🙄 tho 😒

UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@YoMomma I'm glad that you and your husband have matured from those times and are happily married. Congratulations.

My boyfriend is a spoiled cranky overgrown baby. However he will talk over me and refuse to listen or resort to saying I have no respect for him if I challenge what he says. I just cannot talk to him.

Check this out he told the mental health officer this "I'm not like everyone else you've dealt with, my condition will be different" then tells me "they can't help me I'm too intelligent they won't manipulate my thoughts out of being suicidal".

I didn't know what to say and didn't want to continue that conversation I knew where it was going to go - suggesting I'm disrespectful or belittling him.

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UltimateDemiGoddess · 31-35, F

@YoMomma yeah 😒 can't wait to leave.