I have a difficult decision to make.

How do you go about making choices and knowing which one is right? I am not talking about what “feels” right—feelings are fleeting and can be temporary or deceptive.

I am talking about the really hard decisions in life, the ones that will affect your future. When you have two choices presented, do you go left or right? Do you trust yourself enough to make the right choice? Is there even a wrong choice?

There are many ways to look at this. I am in a really weird place in my life and I am at a crossroads. I am really just curious to hear others’ thoughts on this one.

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SaorUladh · 31-35, M

I think about it. It's as simple as that. Take a moment or two to really consider the potential implications of whatever is facing you. Only you can make these decisions and you must learn to trust yourself. You can't guarantee being right but you must do what you can.

As for questions like "Is there even a wrong choice?", that depends on your particular circumstances.