At some point you have to tell yourself "this is not a experience I want to keep having" and stop entertaining things that don't benefit you....

Yes thanks, I'm trying to do that.
Instead of calling myself names, clingy or avoidant, to actually go for the people who care for me enough to not leave me hanging but are then also leaving me the space to be. ..

Yes thats part of why i stopped drinking.

Pretty much sums up why I'm getting divorced after a long marriage

Nmh

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