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Advice needed. How to say no

About 12 years ago, we built a new house in the country. Neighbours are close but not too close. And we get alot of snow in the winter.
(See where this is going yet?)
I had a jeep with a plow on it and enjoyed being neighbourly and would plow the neighbours whenever it snowed as a gesture of good will.
Then I bought a tractor with blower and continued to be neighbourly. I never got a penny from one neighbour while the the other neighbour brought a couple micro jars of jam over with a small gift card for home depot.

Couple of years ago, the tractor started developing issues and was expensive to fix. Its still temperamental and I told the neighbours that I couldnt do their driveways for them anymore.

Well…every time it snows, my phone rings and they don’t take no for an answer. I feel guilty and end up doing it for them.

How do i say no? So that they understand?

(I wasn’t awake yet this morning and my phone was already ringing.)

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SW-User
Let them know the cost of the repairs is high and you can't afford to plow everyone's driveway and you're very sorry. Make the suggestion they call a company that plows, suggest a local company you know of.
Send a letter 💌 if needed or holiday card with the info.
LunarOrbit · 61-69, M
@SW-User I agree. Thanks for the advice. 😌
SW-User
@LunarOrbit it's not easy but it seems like you've done your part for a long time!
LunarOrbit · 61-69, M
@SW-User Well about ten years. And winters here are pretty long with alot of snow.
I appreciate your acknowledgement and feel better knowing that cutting them off is justified. Thanks