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Advice needed. How to say no

About 12 years ago, we built a new house in the country. Neighbours are close but not too close. And we get alot of snow in the winter.
(See where this is going yet?)
I had a jeep with a plow on it and enjoyed being neighbourly and would plow the neighbours whenever it snowed as a gesture of good will.
Then I bought a tractor with blower and continued to be neighbourly. I never got a penny from one neighbour while the the other neighbour brought a couple micro jars of jam over with a small gift card for home depot.

Couple of years ago, the tractor started developing issues and was expensive to fix. Its still temperamental and I told the neighbours that I couldnt do their driveways for them anymore.

Well…every time it snows, my phone rings and they don’t take no for an answer. I feel guilty and end up doing it for them.

How do i say no? So that they understand?

(I wasn’t awake yet this morning and my phone was already ringing.)

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JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I can't believe they actually call you and ask after you told them your tractor is going. I personally would have accepted that and made other arrangements. I would be grateful you ever did it in the first place.
LunarOrbit · 61-69, M
@JimboSaturn Yeah. Im the same Jim. I guess they don’t see things like us. Or they dont want to (as its to their benefit.
Thanks
Well said @JimboSaturn