How do you feel towards broken people? I feel sorry for them but if they aren’t trying to fix themselves then they probably don’t need me in their

But there may also be the option of staying in their lives without trying to help. Being broken can be incredibly lonely. Sometimes just being there is enough.

I don't judge but I don't want their problems be my problems too. There are various ways of being broken and I'm not going to pretend that I know more than I really do. I openly say that I don't understand and can't empathize with certain problems or disorders some people have but I'm also not going to give them shit for who they are or tell them how to live their life. I just know that if their behaviour has potential to harm me, I want to distance myself. If I can't help myself with certain things, I'm not going to pretend I could help someone else with theirs.

I am one
So i accept them

I lost my daughter Eliza 6yrs ago to a fentanyl od by a fb dude whe'd never met before. She died while I was giving her CPR. She was the absolute love of my life and I'm broken as broken can get.

I've tried fixing myself but after all I've tried, I find myself alone with my cat every night, and have zero social interaction with anybody I know. Including my siblings.

I surmise having me, a constant mourner of his daughter, is not fun. So now I'm alone. Except Sadie my kitty.

Wish me luck, I'm very not religious.
Thanks, Vin53

I have compassion for people in most cases. Doesnt mean im going to overextend myself for them at my own expense.

Then your in trouble as most people are broken

If they arent trying to make progress they can pull you down with them

Exactly. I’ve known so many people who fail to take responsibility for their poor decisions and actions.(because they mostly all break themselves)
Some people will never try to fix themselves. They have excuses for every suggestion anyone makes. I think they love the attention and are lazy.
If they fix themselves, they might have work and be self reliant.

If theyre working on themselves i will help them grow.

As much as i suffer myself, i find that i have an ability to swallow other peoples sadness and im able to help them overcome ehat theyre struggling with.

Broken people who aren't trying to pick up the pieces, they're absolutely exhausting and I can't break my back trying to fix them.

We all make choices and mistakes. I sure made mine. 🤷 Turn the page.

I feel in a way broken as well. But definitely trying

@Witchthatwantsfun so what do you think of Javier Bardem & would you do him