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How do you feel towards broken people? I feel sorry for them but if they aren’t trying to fix themselves then they probably don’t need me in their

Life, I feel as if they will just hold me back if I try to help them.
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@pripyatamusementpark It's unpopular because it's basically asking "get over" whatever that's broke them.

I get the try to get better part though.

But who concept of calling the issues that broke them as a excuse is a bit much.
@LifeIsShort that's not what I'm saying at all

But there may also be the option of staying in their lives without trying to help. Being broken can be incredibly lonely. Sometimes just being there is enough.
I am one
So i accept them
candycane · 31-35, F
@ExperienceDLT me as well
Selah ·
I have compassion for people in most cases. Doesnt mean im going to overextend myself for them at my own expense.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
If they arent trying to make progress they can pull you down with them
Elisbch · M
@vetguy1991

only if you let them. Something called your own boundaries.

One can have healthy boundaries in place and still help the broken without being pulled down.
Deserthiker · 61-69, M
Exactly. I’ve known so many people who fail to take responsibility for their poor decisions and actions.(because they mostly all break themselves)
Some people will never try to fix themselves. They have excuses for every suggestion anyone makes. I think they love the attention and are lazy.
If they fix themselves, they might have work and be self reliant.
Rebirth · 26-30, M
If theyre working on themselves i will help them grow.

As much as i suffer myself, i find that i have an ability to swallow other peoples sadness and im able to help them overcome ehat theyre struggling with.
We all make choices and mistakes. I sure made mine. 🤷 Turn the page.
496sbc · 36-40, M
I feel in a way broken as well. But definitely trying
DonJuan · 41-45, M
@Witchthatwantsfun so what do you think of Javier Bardem & would you do him
Tumbleweed · F
pdockal · 56-60, M
Then your in trouble as most people are broken

 
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