Am I in the wrong here? 😕

So I’ve only been dating my bf for a few weeks now.
And he wants to meet my parents and my mom wants to meet him too…
But I’m a bit hesitant because these past few months my relationship with my mom hasn’t been exactly the best
(long story )

😕 My dad tells me that whenever I’m comfortable introducing them then that’s fine. He doesn’t really care as long as he’s treating me right ( which he definitely is ☺️) For some reason my mom is demanding to meet him, she thinks that he had to ask for their permission first in order to even date me ( she’s very old school) which I understand but I’m not hung up on it

Any advice? Am I overthinking things? 😕

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GinPanda · 26-30, F

You can't win in this situation so you just have to do what is most correct for you. In my opinion only, you should find the proper timing and tell you mother that you love her and love that she wants to meet your new friend and you cannot wait to do that when the timing is more correct in the relationship but that time isn't right now. Your dad seems to be level, take him as a partner.
Best of luck, good energy your way.