Am I in the wrong here? 😕

So I’ve only been dating my bf for a few weeks now.
And he wants to meet my parents and my mom wants to meet him too…
But I’m a bit hesitant because these past few months my relationship with my mom hasn’t been exactly the best
(long story )

😕 My dad tells me that whenever I’m comfortable introducing them then that’s fine. He doesn’t really care as long as he’s treating me right ( which he definitely is ☺️) For some reason my mom is demanding to meet him, she thinks that he had to ask for their permission first in order to even date me ( she’s very old school) which I understand but I’m not hung up on it

Any advice? Am I overthinking things? 😕

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Lilnonames · F

Let him come meet bring your mom flowers and apologize and ask if he can date you. Go out to dinner and move on

Ashly · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames that sounds so simple and to the point ☹️
I’m not on good terms with her at this moment tho

Lilnonames · F

@Ashly but she will think she's in control.. Why argue and stir things up

Ashly · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames I see what you mean 😕 I know they should meet soon
Hopefully I’ll feel a bit more comfortable about it

Lilnonames · F

@Ashly it's not that bad unless you he hiding something. She just wants you safe

Ashly · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames I just hate how much of a loose cannon she can be 😕

Lilnonames · F

@Ashly all moms are. I believe it's hard to let a daughter go protect till the end

Ashly · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames she was way more protective of my older brother, yet she literally let him do and go wherever,whenever no questions asked ☹️
I had to sneak out the window in order to meet yo wife my friends sometimes 😂

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Ashly · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames yea basically 😒😂

Lilnonames · F

@Ashly hope it be OK nighty night ash ley I think your so sweet💋

Ashly · 26-30, F

@Lilnonames thank you mami ♥️🫶🏻🥹 Goodnight and have a wonderful nights sleep 😴