Making new friends is hard in 2024

I have no friends at all. I've tried everyway you possibly can, going to activity groups, trying to start up random conversations with strangers, contact old peers that I used to be in contact with, but it always just fizzles out for whatever reason. I don't think I am that boring. I try my best to be engaged, listen and also talk but it seems like I am not important enough to maintain a connection, just a mere good conversation. Don't get me wrong I appreciate a good conversation at any time but some times I wish there was more to it then that. Am I the only one who feels this way? I just want to laugh, hang out and be myself with someone again if that is even possible today. Am I being too entitled?

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QueenOfZaun · 26-30, F

I’m in a similar situation. I haven’t had a stable friend group since college. I’m not completely alone because I do have a best friend that I’ve known for eight years. But beyond him, I don’t have anybody.

It’s extremely difficult to make friends in a world where people just don’t talk to each other anymore. Also as we get older it’s more difficult to trust other people, I find that I’ve become quite cynical and cautious about others. When you’re young you’re more bold and willing to take risks.

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SW-User

@QueenOfZaun Well said

SW-User

@QueenOfZaun I used to have a bestfriend but he no longer wanted to be my friend anymore 😔 This was like maybe 4-5 years ago now. I used to hate that he did what he did but now I just miss him :( I know I have to move on and I have but I do not think I have fully gotten over it. I'm also very sorry you're in a similar situation and yes I strongly agree. I think when people get older, they trust less so even if they feel like that person could be a good new friend to them, their instincts kick in, plus people also get more busy as they age so that is also another factor to consider. Nobody is to blame, it is probably just the cycle of life. People go to school, get jobs, start families, and whoever came along for the ride you just hope that they stay for it. If not, you can be all alone in this world