@ScarletWitch I actually have a doorbell camera that alerts me to motion and records and saves all events. So if she were to come over even without telling me first, I'd know. Its just the fact that he knows how lonely I've been since becoming a mom and then he tells me his friend is gonna go hang out with him while I'm not there when nobody ever comes to hang out with me during the day period. I feel sad, rejected, and like I'm not 'cool' enough or fun enough to be around. Yeah I'm a bit depressed but thats because I don't have just one person I could go to when me and my husband argue or something better discussed with a female whatever it may be. He at least has her and one other person he can call a friend if he needed a third party to vent to. I don't and he doesn't understand how him telling her to just not come makes me upset because it'd be the first adult interaction i would've had face-to-face in at least 6 months. I work alone, I'm home alone while hubby works, I'm just tired of being alone all the time and was looking forward to hanging out with another person for once and he just dashed that away.