How would you feel about a lover that has his ex name tattooed on his chest?

Not only does he have her name tattooed on his chest but he talks about her all the time ,
Non the less he claims to wanna marry you
But he refuses to get the tattoo removed 😕
He says he got it before he met you
He's ex left him with no remorse

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Busybee333 · 31-35, F

I'd be more concerned about which name is tattooed in his heart ❤

He is probably still hurting. Some wounds heal very slowly.

But if he can't let her go, you have to let him go :/

RadiantRose · 31-35, F

@Busybee333 Thank you hun
It hurts but I will
I've been hurt in the past
My heart can not take any longer

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

@RadiantRose
You can confront him and tell him exactly how you feel and why you feel hurt. No need to blame.. he's just trying to be with you while still aching for her. Inform him what is going on in your heart. If he doesn't take drastic action to save the relationship... it means he still cares more about her, in which case you are better off alone. If you see big changes however, it may be that realizing he's about to lose you woke him up, in which case he may deserve a second chance. A middle ground would be to take a break and let him recover for a pre-determined time.. then go on a date again after said time..to sort out the final decision about your relationship .