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I really need help but warning its about self harm

So I just need advice on two things, one should I tell my girlfriend I self harm and if I should how do I tell her? I want to tell her cause I basically lied and told he I don't do it anymore and I feel guilty and don't want to hide it. Plus in the other hand I have absolutely no clue on ho to tell her about it, because honestly how the heck do you just randomly begin to tell someone about that? So it would really help me out if people could comment on this and help, thanks for reading!
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collin · M
please tell your girlfriend. communication is the best thing in a relationship, and there is a chance she can find out sooner or later.

maybe don't bring it up directly, strike a conversation and talk for 10 minutes or shorter if you can. then bring it up when the time is right. you can do this!
@collin I should’ve listened to you I panicked and just brought it up randomly and now I’m waiting for a extremely concerned girlfriend to respond 😭
collin · M
@PierreTorres oof. how did it turn out?
@collin not great is all I'll say I have a vent post about it on my profile if you wanna see how it went but I really really should've listened to you 😂
collin · M
@PierreTorres i'll check it out. don't blame yourself for this outcome, even if i suggested it there's never really a right time to bring up topics like those. it'll always be awkward
@collin I know but I said it at such a random time I hadn't even talked to her since I got home that day injust really wish I would've followed your advice and worked up to it instead of panicking and just saying everything at once.
collin · M
@PierreTorres it's okay. there's no use getting worked up over something that's already done, what matters is that the truth is out and you've done it. it feels bad at first, but i encourage you to accept it.