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I think I might be slipping into depression. How to prevent it?

For some time, I'm waking up at night crying without a certain reason. I also feel like I'm an "observer" whenever I'm with other people.
I relive all unpleasent situations in my life and remember constantly what mean someone said to me years ago.
I keep thinking about my childhood and what went wrong back then despite being 28 now.
I'm giving myself hard time for my past decisions.

How to stop?
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EbrietasTenorei Best Comment
The unfortunate news here is that... You can't. Everyone is on their own journey and you can fight, struggle, do 10000 different things to put a bandaid on a festering wound and it will just slow the healing. Even therapy can be not effective. Radical acceptance is the way. Accept your feelings, don't try to run away from them - you will be wasting years. While acceptance deals with the discomfort much faster and letting yourself feel bad is part of life. It's a natural feeling. The question here is to ask "what is it telling me and what should I change about my lifestyle to experience it less". But it wont go away completely, it's a part of our behaviour that's purpose is to show us that changes in our life are necessary to be made.
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
@EbrietasTenorei I really like your response. Might be worth best answer.
LillyJulia · 26-30, F
@EbrietasTenorei hmm, I'll have to think about your comment to understand it fully. Do you have a link to a website where it is described more in detail? Thanks! :)
LillyJulia · 26-30, F
@YoungPoet345 Do best answers give people extra karma here like on reddit or so? I guess, I can click it.
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
@LillyJulia https://hopeway.org/blog/radical-acceptance
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
What she’s brought up is actually something that can be used in therapy for something called distress tolerance. Taken from dialectical behavioral therapy. There’s also something called acceptance commitment therapy that is quite similar
YoungPoet345 · 26-30, F
I have received services for quite some time that taught me about distress tolerance and how to deal with painful or difficult situations