How to overcome this with guys?

Today this really attractive guy kept looking at me while I was walking...he was working on a house. I think he looked at me 3 times, and all 3 times, I looked back down. I get SUPER self conscious and just dont feel confident. I thought, well even if I know I need to lose 25 pounds, he STILL looked, and maybe wasnt thinking of my insecurities. I felt nice though , in those moments that he looked. 🌺 I just want to feel I can smile at a guy and NOT look away. I guess its because I feel Im not whole, that I am not enough... like, they may see my outer appearance, but dont know the anxiety ridden Me, so I look down. Any tips on How I can look up and feel good about me, despite these flaw/issues???🙁

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SW-User

He definitely saw an outwardly attractive side of you. He was acknowledging you by his smile and eye contact. No words need to be said. Body language is what matters. That is what happened to me a few times. Nothing serious, just positive recognition. Just my humble opinion 😀

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@SW-User Im unsure he smiled, but looked a few times at me. Any guy who is attractive, I get so nervous. 😣

SW-User

@Coralmist you're okay nothing wrong with that. I turn into jello when some attractive female looks at me, always have had issues with being self conscious

AstroZombie · 36-40, M

@Coralmist Good thing I'm not attractive then :P

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@Coralmist You shoulda been like, *eye flutter* "Hey big boy, wanna come on over and nail something?"

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@uncalled4 Omgggg lol. 😛