Seeing my part

I was thinking about ending things with my partner because it feels like he doesn’t listen, doesn’t let me console him, isn’t very emotionally available and seems controlling but then I realized that I might also do some of those things too. The one that I’m focused on now is not letting me console him. I’m so used to being the one that listens and takes care of people but I don’t really accept it from others very well. Maybe their is still a lesson in this relationship for me