How can I make people understand me better ? The problem is that when I talk about something...

be generous and enjoy your day. if you do this you will love yourself and lessen negative thoughts.

practice your kindness with a positive affirmation.

positive affirmation and goal
word- thought -action

obey. (your meaningful virtue.) to focus on good things you enjoy.

[b][c=359E00]don't hurt yourself for anyone not even for yourself.
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Improve your time with others.

I enjoyed my time walking in the grass.

I'll make sure to share for generous blessings.

consideration and self assertive for enjoying life around you.

when I hugged someone I was at peace and so were they.

[b][c=009E4F]be the friend you wish you had.
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understanding kindness and affirmation.

consideration - when you listen to their reply pay attention one definition to understand indirectly.

when you look at a spot you focus a bit.
holding pillow to chest
word - to thought - action

ServantOfTheGoddess · 61-69, M

I don't think you are crazy, but you are [b]not [/b]making yourself clear.
I assume English is not your first language. If it [b]is[/b], you do have a problem!

In any case, you asked your question in a very long sentence (I counted 88 words). Breaking down your communication into shorter sentences might help.

Also, your way of expressing yourself seems convoluted. "People understand 'what I am not actually asking for'" is an odd turn of phrase. Maybe this is because English isn't your first language, or maybe you express yourself in unusual, roundabout ways in your native language too?

I would have said, "People think I am asking for something that is not what I mean at all" or just "People misunderstand me".

Perhaps conversations on here can give you practice in expressing yourself more directly and clearly.

eyeno · M

[b]Let your words be few[/b],

[b]When asking[/b], direct subject matter.

[b]When answering[/b], a simple yes or no should suffice.

To many words just confuses others.

ABCDEF7 · M

Try to use straight forward and simple language.

Freeranger · M

You need a reset. It's as simple as this, and it's not a criticism. You have no syntax. Period. What you wish to say, along a certain line, you then separate with other thoughts.....it's like you're overspeaking your own narrative.

At least, it's what I gather with this post. Again, not being critical, just observant.