Recently I learned that no one knows where my guinea pig is and it's causing me great anxiety.
For the record I didn't mean to leave it with my ex narc, I shame myself every day for leaving it but when I left I wasn't in the right state of mind. I was also 10 hours away from home and had to travel back in a car with no air conditioning. Anyways to get the rest of this story out, my ex narc's brother called me yesterday and let me know that my ex was arrested (again) for drunk driving with a guy who my ex narc and his dad were living with. Apparently him and his dad moved back to my state and I didn't even know he was just 30 minutes away from me but I also learned that my guinea pig was with him and his father.
He was then transferred to his home state (the next state over) where he somehow ended up on bond and now has a warrant (again,) don't ask me how a guy whose been arrested in at least five states now can continue to get out on bail but it happens.
Anyways, they were actually staying with the guy's mother because his dad likes to stay with random women he doesn't know on facebook and my ex narc messed it up after he got her son wrapped up in drunk driving charges. I learned that last time anyone knew anything about guinea pig, it was at this woman's house and she kicked him and his dad out with no chance of getting their stuff which means my guinea is with a stranger.
It's a long stretch but I'm going to call down to the police station and see if they can check on the last known address of the guy my ex was arrested with and see about my guinea pig. See, I'm kind of torn.. in a way I think she seems like a good person. She kicked them both to the curb instead of making excuses for them and letting my ex narc's father continue living there so she must have some sense of morality. This, in turn does make me feel a bit better.
On the other hand, it's kind of complicated but the whole family are pathological liars so I can't really trust what my ex narc's brother said to me on the phone. I kept trying to pry out more information but he outwardly lied a few times and wouldn't tell me this woman's name. I'm not stupid, I know he's holding back. It's weird, he says he hates his brother SO much and doesn't want to be like them but they all cover up for each other too.
So now, I don't even know if my guinea even came with them and it's likely dead if that's the case but I should hope not. I hope it's with this woman and I hope it's being treated better, my guinea didn't deserve that and didn't deserve me.
Wish me luck if you've made it this far, I don't know if the police will even do anything but I'm kind of hoping they can at least check on my guinea. Even if I can't get it back, I want it to be in good hands.
He was then transferred to his home state (the next state over) where he somehow ended up on bond and now has a warrant (again,) don't ask me how a guy whose been arrested in at least five states now can continue to get out on bail but it happens.
Anyways, they were actually staying with the guy's mother because his dad likes to stay with random women he doesn't know on facebook and my ex narc messed it up after he got her son wrapped up in drunk driving charges. I learned that last time anyone knew anything about guinea pig, it was at this woman's house and she kicked him and his dad out with no chance of getting their stuff which means my guinea is with a stranger.
It's a long stretch but I'm going to call down to the police station and see if they can check on the last known address of the guy my ex was arrested with and see about my guinea pig. See, I'm kind of torn.. in a way I think she seems like a good person. She kicked them both to the curb instead of making excuses for them and letting my ex narc's father continue living there so she must have some sense of morality. This, in turn does make me feel a bit better.
On the other hand, it's kind of complicated but the whole family are pathological liars so I can't really trust what my ex narc's brother said to me on the phone. I kept trying to pry out more information but he outwardly lied a few times and wouldn't tell me this woman's name. I'm not stupid, I know he's holding back. It's weird, he says he hates his brother SO much and doesn't want to be like them but they all cover up for each other too.
So now, I don't even know if my guinea even came with them and it's likely dead if that's the case but I should hope not. I hope it's with this woman and I hope it's being treated better, my guinea didn't deserve that and didn't deserve me.
Wish me luck if you've made it this far, I don't know if the police will even do anything but I'm kind of hoping they can at least check on my guinea. Even if I can't get it back, I want it to be in good hands.
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