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If she keeps conversations short since I seemed to bother her with too much talking

yet she still engages in small talk, is it wrong to even just say hi and otherwise ignore her? I'm just fed up with being manipulated with "showing interest".
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QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F Best Comment
At least then you’d know her intentions.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
@QueenOfTheNerds she once told me that she wanted to have kids some day, and it seemed like she trusted me with her health issues, which she didn't tell her ex. I felt close to her and consider myself the most willing to stay with her (even though she once told me that she didn't like getting married because she'd fear the costs of getting divorced again). After all, if she keeps on quitting with men this quickly, that's it with kids at some point.
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
@scooogy It sounds like you already know where she stands. Does she know that you have romantic interest in her? If so, it sounds like you’ve been friendzoned.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
@QueenOfTheNerds Would you say she knows if I complained to her about having dated someone and not having told me?
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
@scooogy Not necessarily.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
@QueenOfTheNerds Are chances higher for me to "get her" because she told her one friend how she tried to get to make her now ex ask her out back then? Like despite quitting with him for whatever reason (after a few weeks already) she is rather passive here?
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
@scooogy I can’t speak for her, but I’d think a good place to start would be to tell her how you feel.