If she keeps conversations short since I seemed to bother her with too much talking

@scooogy Not necessarily.

@QueenOfTheNerds Are chances higher for me to "get her" because she told her one friend how she tried to get to make her now ex ask her out back then? Like despite quitting with him for whatever reason (after a few weeks already) she is rather passive here?

@scooogy I can’t speak for her, but I’d think a good place to start would be to tell her how you feel.

@QueenOfTheNerds she seemed like even though she got to know her now ex for about 5 months before finally dating him (which lasted for barely a month), at the same time she sorta tried to get me to ask her out as well. At least we got to know quite some, even if it was over 3 years of time. And these few months while she got to know him without me knowing of anything, she grew more attentive towards me and nicer than ever.

@scooogy I’d still say something. It’s not middle school, so no reason to make it a game.

@QueenOfTheNerds I fear her ignoring me from then on. 😕 she once raged at me for bothering her with unnecessary questions after I complained to her about having played me because she dated someone else while appearing interested in me.

She was way nicer again after a few months of distancing, but still kept her line of short conversations instead of somehow just spending time together (which she sure does now and then with female friends of hers, even if it's at her workplace).