I Have Random Thoughts

First of, so not try to impress people anymore. One cannot bend folks against their will and intentions. Yes hypnotist and those in Wicca may tell you otherwise, but let us leave those fringe elements at bay. The right one, who ever that may be and whoever they are- will love you , unconditionally, without you having to expend much energy on your part. They will love your being- heart, mind and soul, and they will love that they do. Your presence will make them happy.

And the dears that keep coming back see you as a special person. One they wish to relate to-on some level. And ones that truly enjoy your company. They may even be a soulmate, as we have many, and their souls loves to sing sweetly to yours.

Just be yourself. Stop trying so hard. Yes, I know loneliness and lack of intimacy suck- How well I know that as I live that. But I also refuse to put on airs for anyone.

This leaves you in a state of solitude and solace. And reflection on our pasts actions is not all that bad. As we are learners.

I get your frustration. I really do.

Just be you. That's enough. For what it's worth, you are at your very best, IMHO anyhow, (that is to say -- amazing) when you are relaxed and just letting yourself be that amazing EIBFPDS woman you are.

Trying to make yourself into something different to please others is a losing proposition. I mean, if there was something wrong with you, then sure, by all means, work to improve that one thing. But getting "emotionally tired" "trying to impress people" is just a bad plan. Aesop had it right: If you try to please everyone, you not only fail, but you lose your ass in the process.

The only thing I would do, were it within my ability, would be to allow you to see yourself through the eyes of those people who know you and love you. Just for a minute. You would never doubt again.

Love you, beautiful Kat

👍Your second paragraph = 💖 Those are the quality people.

Just keep being your authentic self, good and bad. And show up here more often! ;-)

Wait for karma and nature to do its thing. You're an incredible person as is. Just relax and let your natural aura flow. You'll soon find the right person coming to you. In the interim, just beat the others off with a stick. 😊

Now you just be you and the right people will gravitate toward you. Trying to impress people will always attract the wrong people, besides, who wants to work that hard?

Thank you, awesome thought! ☺ I'd like to copy it, make it a sharpie on the fridge.

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