Update on 2 spirit situation

Well I asked the nice spirit why she was helping my entity all of a sudden. And she said he genuinely wanted a relationship with me, and she was here to help him interact with me better. I am not sure if that means he saw how quickly I warmed up to her and asked her for advice with me or? I don't know.

I pointed out to her that I just did not want to be married to him at all. She just told me kind of flatly that I needed to learn how to live with this entity, like my divination readings do. Like all my divination readings, she would not expand on this. She said she was here to try to make the process better for me by showing him how to behave, this is what she was able to do to help, but if I didn't want her help she'd leave. And I said well no I'll take what help I can get.

So that's good. I wanted a friend and maybe guardian and I got a marriage counselor. Buhhhhh....can't be rude about it. At least she is trying to help which is a lot more than I can say about most spirits.