How do you balance wanted to obey God but still wanting sinful stuff [Spirituality & Religion]

You can't serve God by wanting to do sinful stuff at the same time. I was a Christian and an addict at the same time and I was not able to really pray with God. Being a Christian means dying to sinful desires and living for Christ. This is a slow process, but with the help of Jesus, it is possible. You will make progress if you try to please Him. He loves you no matter what you do, but He is helping you to become the person that you were always designed to be-more like Him.

Just do your best to avoid doing the sinful stuff and focus on the good things you can do for others..

No one can acieve a 100% success rate..

But we can believe that Gods standards are good..

And we can trust in His Atonement to cover our failings..

Depends on the sins and on God. How do you know you are doing what God wants? Cause it's in the Bible? That isn't a guarantee. Because you heard him in your head. That isn't a guarantee either.
Test the spirits to see if they be of God because God is love and love covers a multitude of sins.
That's three different verses but they work well together.
Beware of false phophets that use fear and anger on their congregations. As God is love and perfect love drives out fear.
He who has love has God, he who has fear and anger does not have God because God is love.
The Bible and voices can't be trusted due to being able to be manipulated. But their is the word of God written upon the heart. We call that a conscience. When we do bad we feel bad. When we do good we feel good. That is the best we can do.

Your luv for God has to outweigh your luv for sin..the more you have a personal relationship with God eventually you will start to loose interests in things that doesn't help you grow..

My balance is: 0% what god wants, 100% what I want (with certain restrictions because of punishable by law stuff)

Nobody has ever figured that out. Never will.

Wanting isn't doing as far as sin goes. 😊

Just enjoy doing what you like, and along about age 70, get born again.

{@happyg44] so basically you are saying you want to find the happy medium where you can have of both worlds without feeling guilty for your naughty side . sorry to burst your bubble it does not exist