You know what bothers me? How men are seen as strong and taking charge when speaking up for themselves but when women do the same she's crazy or a b*t

Men can show strong passionate emotions while defending themselves or speaking out against unfair treatment but if a woman does the same thing she's too emotional or takes things personally or crazy and difficult to work with. In past jobs I've actually been denied advancement because of this. I've had the ceiling lowered to the point i couldn't stand up straight. All because i spoke my mind one time and was deemed difficult and emotionally charged. You see i wasn't always an exotic dancer i did try other things. I got more and more Dissilusioned so i went back to dancing everytime.

What blew my mind was everytime i ran into this issue the management was mainly male. There was one job i didn't have this issue and it was because everyone was primarily female manager wise. At that job i was supported and was well liked for being strong and speaking my mind. It was a shock to me that my honesty and boldness wasn't appreciated or well received in the other places.