What red flags in a relationship do we often overlook?

We usually fall victim to the persons ability to manipulate us even when we know we should NOT always submit to their ways.
But we do. And its ok. If I love a woman I love her. No questions asked, manipulative or not. ☺

Thing is with red flags is that we’re all guilty of having em.

And for a relationship to work they have to be seen - then personal changes should be done from both sides.

This makes or breaks the connection.

In the beginning, all of them. Especially if the chemistry is very strong, we project goodness onto them and ignore anything negative.

All of them at first

Confusing chemistry for compatibility

Control

Showing impatience often without any attempt to regulate themselves.
Everyone becomes impatient, but those who are impatient often , especially if they yell and throw a fits often and then blame the situation instead of themselves usually not good news.

Not a few.......

One of them is not sharing the same view on what a relationship should be.

If they can't afford to pay for us both to live comfortably

Im catholic if she cant be happy being a house wife or both of us working without her cheating i dont want her.

When she doesn't do what I say

Mostly the ones visible when we’re most vulnerable.

Love bombing

Gaslighting.Gaslighing

Too many ball spankings.

People so obsessed with spotting red flags that they'll create them using nothing but bad faith interpretations.

Love bombing. We are blinded by it.

The obvious ones everyone tries to warn us about but we don't listen

Political leaning.

Like the literal red flags and the black ones

Her wanting to be on top every night

If someone is hot enough, almost any red flag can get overlooked or ignored

Lying