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I am starting to wonder if I really like men at all, or it's all just peer pressure and societal norms

I mean I like them, they are easy to talk to, but do I belong with one? I'm not so sure.
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YoMomma ·
Sometimes the wrong man can make you hate all men.. a bad experience type thing .. but women are just as bad.. is it nice to be with a nice man.. sure just like it's annoying and aggravating to be with a bad obnoxious rude selfish one .. you just have to know what you're dealing with first before getting involved and resenting it after 😳 be smart and examine the situation and the person and their habits and intentions before involving your person and emotions 😏
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KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
Only you can answer that question personally I feel the same I like men as friends but I am not sleeping with one therefore perhaps I am really a lesbian trapped with male anatomy.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I was at the same place in my 30s or so. Glad I didn't give up.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@uncalled4 People like that should have a warning label. I came across him on a dating app the other day and it sent a shiver up my spine as it made me realise, you just never know what you are walking into. I had no idea who he was until I had my second daughter 3 years into our relationship.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@Kuronekko It took me 6 years, so you're twice as smart as I.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@uncalled4 it took me 9 years to break out of it.
It's understandable, a lot are pretending to be nice.. But they aren't
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pdockal · 56-60, M
@Kuronekko

i just got a warning about our conversation .... the admins are out of control
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
I deal with mental abuse everyday with my wife...its an awful relationship that I keep thinking will get better
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@Kuronekko i think my relief will be gaving a girlfriend to enjoy some nice female attention without the abuse to keep me sane...lol
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Midlifemale I would put my efforts into freeing yourself from the situation entirely. It's not worth the pain of staying.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@Kuronekko I agree...but have been together for so long...will be hard to get out
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@UBotMate I think women are just less likely to stay somewhere they aren't happy. Guys just seem to be able to ignore it in favour of not being alone.
OriginalDumbMan · 36-40
Do you like women?
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@OriginalDumbMan I find them a lot more attractive.
OriginalDumbMan · 36-40
@Kuronekko Maybe you are a bi. 🤔
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@OriginalDumbMan I know I'm bi
Ceinwyn · 26-30, F
When you find the right man, It’s absolutely perfect. ❤
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Ceinwyn It could be. I am not sure how many more times I want to risk it.
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Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Ceinwyn I find way more understanding and empathy in the women I know than the men, on a balance.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
if you like us, that is good
the rift is increasing :(
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@Matt85 It will continue as long as women are controlled and dictated to the way they are being now.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
Maybe not, you don't actually need to be in a relationship at all.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@Kuronekko It's up to you but I quit bothering with that a long time ago. Human sexuality operates in animal mode, it's actually kind of disgusting.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@HobNoblin lol i enjoy that part
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@Kuronekko It's not the act it's self as much as the psychology surrounding it. It's like people say all is fair in love and war. It's disgusting how people act.
mindless · M
you have your own identity and thats not conditional on any guy
MaryDreamilton · 46-50, F
If you don't know yourself, how do you expect strangers on a website to know?
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@MaryDreamilton I'm just sharing my thoughts lol, its not a test.
MaryDreamilton · 46-50, F
@Kuronekko Oh, OK.
pdockal · 56-60, M
Why is that an issue ?????
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Kuronekko

i dont see any issue
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@pdockal with what? please be direct about what you are asking, it would really help me.
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Kuronekko

no worries
all good
well have to just let it go
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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Kuronekko I sincerely doubt that... 🥴
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@MartinTheFirst You doubt what lol? It's a fact.
Kuronekko · 41-45, F
@MarbleMarvel Deep thoughts, deep thoughts
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Thrust · 56-60, M
@jackson55

Deep!

 
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