Why men want dominance over women . What they even get?

Its one of the weirdest things. I have no interest in dominance over a woman. I don't want dominance over anyone!

I want a partner in this life, an equal partner. Anything else is roleplay and bedroom stuff. For real life, for the ups and downs of daily life, I need someone who respects my opinion and feelings and who thoughts and feelings I can respect.

Anything else is exhausting.

This may not resonate with you like I see it doing in my head. Sorry if I offend. Not my intention.

I'm thinking it's your choice in men that is getting this result enough for you to generalize a statement like that.
Obviously not all men thrive to dominate women but the ones your picking seem to.
Maybe change up what you look for in a man.
It reminds me of the bad boy phenomenon.
Bad boys are catnip to most women. LOL
It seldom works out for them.
We all have a type we are attracted to.
It's up to use to evaluate if our type is actually a healthy choice for us.
Good luck.

I'm a submissive so I have a whole different take on your post but I do see your point.

The minds of a lot of young men today have been f----ed up by porn.
But there are good men around. They are not all like the ones you have been dealing with. I hope you meet someone who can really love you in ways that are good for you both.

Women can be so lovely 😊
I treat them as equals
Why do some people want to be dominated?

Because men don't actually care about women. A lot of them don't even like women. So if they can dominate them, it makes women inhuman in their eyes, so they can deal with their lack of feelings.

They can and some do 🙂 not all men have equal personalities

You hang around the wrong “men”

Seems like you over all hate men. Why are you talking to strange muslim guys? Are you a muslim?
You need to work on a lot of things.

You are confusing a myth with reality.

The man is supposed to be the man of the house. His job is to support the wife and kids. He is supposed to work. He is supposed to protect the wife and kids. He is supposed to PARENT the kids. In a family, men are expected to be the boss, do all the manly chores, etc.

Yes, there are some men who are bullies, to their wives and children, and there's far too many of them.
(I'm a little surprised to see a folder entitled "men who abuse women.")

Women in many instances want to be dominated. That doesn't mean abused, hurt, humiliated. That means living in the presence of a MAN, someone strong enough to protect the home, pay for the home, put food on the table.

A man who beats his wife is not a real man. He is a coward.