Why do men do this

Men often act nice towards me just to hurt me later. Most men around me or men i often tend to come across often make me feel like a dumb loser.

Note : I am not dating any of them. Most of them have wives at home. Only some of them are young.

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I would guess you are good looking and that's the first attraction.
You don't have to take crap from anyone.
There is a certain male ego that believes it deserves the beautiful and young and any resistance is unreasonable no matter how slight or gently communicated.
I'd run from those types.
A good man will treat you kind and get to know you.

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@sahi81 well you're a woman that might be enough .

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Justmeraeagain true. Maybe men only care about body parts of an woman.

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@sahi81 not all men, but it is something they like.
I'm not saying they should be pigs to you about it.
What I'm saying is regardless the behavior is unacceptable and you don't have to take it.

deadgerbil · 26-30

I'd say thoroughly vet them with your friends etc before you let them in

Bleak · 36-40, F

All of them are red flags. Esp the ones having wives at home.

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Royricky09 why

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sahi81 · 22-25, F

@Lackwittyname by being overly nice to me at first, then making me feel dumb by betraying me when I trusted them . And also in name of helping and saying it's for my own good, they say to not take test or study or write exams, bcuz they would be too hard for me. But they r average , not that hard.

They try to discourage me in pursuing my career and looking for relationships. Try to make me settle for cheaper quality men who dunno how to respect women. They say stuff like the qualities i am looking in men don't exists , such men don't exists. But I saw many men with the qualities i respect when I searched .

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