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I guess I have to make this brutally clear

I am absolutely NOT here to date. I'm not going to meet up with you. Nor do I want to get to know you "deeper" on any other platforms. Guys it's not going to happen.

I'm a grieving widow. I watched my husband die in front of me less than two years ago. If you repeatedly try to get me to meet with you or you keep talking about feelings and how you want us to get to know each other cause you think I'm perfect girlfriend material. I have one word.


It feels like you have zero emotional EQ and you're actually trying to play me. I don't block many people but I found something else that's going to make me hit that button.

Please respect my boundaries.
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Baremine · 70-79, C
Sorry for your loss. Without trying to open a wound what happened to your husband. I have lost both my parents my son at age 3 1/2 and my youngest daughter at age 41. My wife has lost both of her parents and two brothers both older than her.
We have been married for 58 years so I am not looking. We are no strangers to death.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Baremine sorry you had so much loss. Especially the loss of your children. I can't imagine how that must be. My husband died from a brain hemorrhage. X
Baremine · 70-79, C
@PatientlyWaiting25 I think the hardest loss we faced was the one that shouldn't have happened. She died at age 41 from alcohol destroying her liver. She couldn't give up the bar scene.
My son died from a strangulated colon. I remember vividly remember giving mouth to mouth and CPR to no avail.
Life is short.
I met my wife when I was 15 and married her when I was 19. I'll be 78 in a couple of months. She is 79.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Baremine I'm so sorry x
Baremine · 70-79, C
@PatientlyWaiting25 best wishes time heals but you never forget.