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I guess I have to make this brutally clear

I am absolutely NOT here to date. I'm not going to meet up with you. Nor do I want to get to know you "deeper" on any other platforms. Guys it's not going to happen.

I'm a grieving widow. I watched my husband die in front of me less than two years ago. If you repeatedly try to get me to meet with you or you keep talking about feelings and how you want us to get to know each other cause you think I'm perfect girlfriend material. I have one word.


It feels like you have zero emotional EQ and you're actually trying to play me. I don't block many people but I found something else that's going to make me hit that button.

Please respect my boundaries.
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RosaMarie · 46-50, F
Just drop names and we'll shame them publically for you.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@RosaMarie it was only one guy that was hard to deal with. I had to block him. Most guys here are gentlemen and they usually realise they over stepped when I don't respond.
Baremine · 70-79, C
Sorry for your loss. Without trying to open a wound what happened to your husband. I have lost both my parents my son at age 3 1/2 and my youngest daughter at age 41. My wife has lost both of her parents and two brothers both older than her.
We have been married for 58 years so I am not looking. We are no strangers to death.
Baremine · 70-79, C
@PatientlyWaiting25 best wishes time heals but you never forget.
@Baremine You might want to conisder The Mourner's Kaddush. It somehow feels to me that it would work for you.. I would also say Praise the Lord!
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Alfred22 I'll have a look. Thanks x
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Rokan · 36-40, M
The people that are going to respect your boundaries don't need this disclaimer and the people that won't will ignore it. The internet is full of these pathetic people and im sorry they don't have respect even for a situation such as yours it really shows an individuls selfishness.
Initially I was going to say something funny about the creeps on here messaging you.

Then I saw the second paragraph. I'm very sorry for your loss and you are in my prayers.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@BritishFailedAesthetic Thank you. I appreciate your prayers xx
Degbeme · 70-79, M
There are days I`m ashamed to be a male. I`m truly sorry for their behaviour
sorry about your loss 🫂
496sbc · 36-40, M
sorry he passed away hun
MellyMel22 · F
Sorry for your loss 🤍
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I can't really see myself wanting to get romantically involved if/when my wife dies.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@VeronicaJane I'm set in my ways now! It is I who is too hard to break in.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@JimboSaturn I do want to, it's just way too soon at the moment.
@PatientlyWaiting25 I'm sure your late husband would agree, BUT all in your good time... when you are ready, and not before.
BooksRMe · 46-50, M
I respect you, and I am not here for those sorts of things either. You are very clear here, anyone not respecting that deserves a swift block.
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Babal · 46-50, M
Feel sorry for all the troubles you are going through.I appreciate your stand .
Some people it seems they are coming straight out of Epstein Files😳
idontcareok · 70-79, M
like duhhh, just block them, don't make a fuss, woww, they have this magic word it's called NO,
It makes me sad that a caring person like you has to say these things.
SW-User
I'm so sorry for your loss 🥺
very sorry for your loss
thisguy20 · 41-45, M
My condolences.

Honestly can't say that I understand why (some) people / users think this is a dating / hookup site; clearly it isn't set up as one
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
So I supposed a dic pic is completely out of the question? :P
MasterLee · 56-60, M
I already assumed that
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@MasterLee yes but unfortunately some didn't.
GoFish ·
that's why don't even reply to them "i want to get to know you" is just a line meaning they want to shag you imo 🙄
Jenny1234 · 56-60, M
So sorry for your loss.

As to the dweebs here, block them

 
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