What is something you used to care about that you don't anymore? In my case romance and stuff...

What is something you used to care about that you don't anymore?

In my case romance and stuff like that, I am focused on personal projects now and feel way better than with those expectations I had before

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HoeBag · 46-50, F

Yeah, romance is like "whatever".

For other things, there used to be a lot that seemed important but today I cannot even remember why it seemed to matter so much. Mostly hobbies but also feeling bad that I wasn't doing as well as people I knew.

HoeBag · 46-50, F

@JimboSaturn Yeah we get older and see things for what they really are.
So many people who seemed to have it all, it eventually falls part.

HoeBag · 46-50, F

@Lovebird Yeah in my 20's it seemed like everyone else had these perfect lives, well traveled, nice houses etc. But at this point, a lot of that crumbled for them.

I think also because young people of any generation are fed this idea that we should all be rich and retired (or close to it) by age 30. NOT realistic.