Concerning your " brutal honesty"..

My question is this...

Are you honest about good stuff?

Do you compliment peoples positive traits and behaviors?

Or do you only open your mouth and flex your fingers to be " honest" once something negative is on your mind?

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SUPERVlXEN · F

I think there’s a difference between standing up to bullies and being brutally honest. I’ll tell people off if their words are hurtful towards minorities. It’s not the same that I have to tell people they’re great for acting to what accommodates a minimum of decency towards people that are being targeted by bigots.

At SW I might add a positive reaction emoji to people acting with decency , but I’ll be aware of how they act as an average on the boards. I see no brutality in any of this.

Punxi · F

@SUPERVlXEN I concur...
Basic decency isn’t heroism, it’s the baseline.

SUPERVlXEN · F

@Punxi
I agree, and it’s very rare that I see anything close to heroism on this site and I’m not even trying to act cynical.