You ever want to genuinely help someone out

and they make it difficult with their behavior to justify helping them
Then they blame you for not helping them

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I've been on both sides of this.

It's hard for me to accept help. It makes me feel bad that I can't fix things on my own and then I unknowingly push away the people that care.