How do you help someone who always thinks you're lying or having alternative motives? They...

djjohnson · 41-45, M

You don't and you can't. They aren't really looking for help if that is what they are worried about.

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

i aint got much time for that. if i help you and you question my motives, dont expect more favors, move along.

SW-User

Honestly, that sounds like a them problem not a you problem. That makes it beyond your control to fix.

ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M

Try to help once, then run away if they don't appreciate your efforts.

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

You don't, then draw a line in the sand. Put as much distance between you and the ingrate as possible, and never offer to help, because they will drag you down to their level.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

You don't, screw them. Don't waste your time.

bijouxbroussard · F

Honestly, I wouldn’t be inclined to help someone like that for long. If they don’t trust my motives they should find someone whose motives they do trust. 🤨

Raaii · 22-25, F

well then if I continue may be I'll be the one needing help soon
soo as an already pathetic person myself I don't need more reasons to be more pathetic
I'll sort out
and if more uncomfortable I'll try to avoid

dontbekoi · 36-40, F

Are they mentally unwell?

Lilnonames · F

Never I tell them I'm helping they thank me and ido it as most know im doing it because I want to. And ican