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AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
I think morality is subjective . People’s morals regarding abortion are a prime example .
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@AthrillatheHunt While I don't want to have a debate about abortion or even autonomy because those are going off the topic, Roe vs Wade was passed, not to make abortion moral, but to prevent women from dying unduly from having illegal abortions or self inflicted abortions. It was ruled far crueler to place a woman in a desperate situation where death is a possibility than to allow for abortions. It really had nothing to do with morals.

As for the draft, I think it is immoral to have.

Medical procedures done as a child were never under your control, but your parents because you were a minor and under the Constitution, are not provided the individual rights granted to adults. This is also why the fetus rights debate is illogical and unconstitutional. Minors and fetuses do not have Constitutional rights because they are not adults.

This is all i will say about these because it strays away from the topic.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
@FoxyQueen minors def have constitutionally protected rights .
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@AthrillatheHunt not when it comes to the things you mentioned. Only in accordance to free speech and due process.

Again, off topic.

Ethics can also reshape how you see the world and your place within. What you may have understood was wrong, you may no longer see as wrong, or vice-versa. I'd agree with often morals are your core values, compassion, empathy, kindness, gratitude, and I could list more.

However, what you call wrong societally can shift with an open heart and doing things you never imagined. You can find love, compassion, gratitude, kindness, empathy and connection in the most unlikely of places you ever thought of possible. I've lived long enough now, that I know if I had only measured entirely by morals, I would have not met some people I found gratitude, love, and compassion in kindness within their connection.

I would not say I lost my moral compass, much more that I learned more and more humanity. We may need to go back to our core selves, without mistaking morals as being the only centre.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@awildsheepschase that is where your own morals come into play because societal morals can and do change, as we are seeing. It requires people to stand up for their own morals and not do things the things that go against your wrong morals. That is where we have a societal issue. Too many people are willing to sacrifice their own sense of rigjt morals and just do what everyone else is doing instead of standing up and saying it is wrong to have a discussion about what is happening.
@FoxyQueen It could be said, morals are the heart and ethics are the mind's consciousness listening to the heart. I listen to society, culture, but also is not my own entire sense of morals (especially in actions).
HiFiRaver · 18-21, M
I think often about where my morals come from, how they were shaped by my upbringing, but also by my experiences with other people. I think about the things that have changed as I've gotten older, but also what has not changed. But the problem is it's one thing to state "these are my morals", it's another to live ethnically by them. And if you can list off what it is you supposedly believe is right or wrong but you don't live according to it, then it's just bluster, it's just how you think you should be, it's not how you are. So when thinking about what my morals are, I have to think about how I actually live and behave and what I actually do in my day-to-day life. And if you notice there's a disconnect, then it's time to return to the most basic questions about what you believe and how you think you should be living and try and remedy that disconnect.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@HiFiRaver exactly!
peterlee · M
I once trained as an Anglican Reader, a preacher to my American Friends. My mother was dying, so I was licensed before I finished the course. I never submitted an an essay on ethics. So I suppose I don’t have any.

I did,however, submit essays on the pre exilic prophets and the Parables of the Kingdom. I rest my thinking there.
I have a hard time with trying to be tolerant of intolerance because that is what people seem to be asking nowadays.

I know people who have devolved into hatred because it feels like the current government is allowing us to become targets of hatred again. When Trump started by going after immigrants, a small portion of my community said, "why should we care ? At least that takes the focus off us."

I said, "you can’t possibly think they’re going to stop with them. They’ll always get around to us, and they won’t differentiate between Black MAGAs and the rest of us.

And sure enough, they haven’t. Just like in taking away women’s rights, they haven’t spared women who are MAGAs.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@bijouxbroussard Yes, I hear you. The tolerance of intolerance is a social agreement and when that agreement has been broken the only option is to be intolerant of everything that may or may not affect you. It requires a strong sense of right and wrong and the ability to stand for those things. A lot of people just don't have the energy or fortitude to do that anymore.
in10RjFox · M
Good subject you have brought up. And all of a sudden you started preaching and asking close-ended question, without worrying how you expect someone to react.

Do you know the difference between morals and ethics?

It appears a very condescending and impolite way of asking anyone for that matter.

As a society, we have lost sense of why we each have morals and ethics and why they are so important to working with each other and uniting to accomplish things better than ourselves.

But the question is, why should each have morals ? When everything is conducted and dictated in life, what is the use of morals and how is anyone allowed to practice? And why is everyone preaching but not practicing ?

So what practicing what one preaches different from preaching what one practices?
@FoxyQueen That's understandable. He sounded confused on your wording which was odd because there was nothing confusing at all with your wording.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@onrealityofdreams Honestly, i think the post caused him some internal cognitive dissonance. To claim I am preaching morals when there isn't a single moral or ethical belief that I hold, or others hold, in this post, makes me think there was something internal going on that caused discomfort and the easy resolution was to throw it back on me, claiming that I am being unduly negative and judgemental. Because nothing they came back with had anything to do with the actual post and everything to with their reaction to it.

I can't help how my post makes people react. I just can't.
@FoxyQueen You're right. You can't control how someone interprets what is said. And when someone takes a few words and misconstrues them again, that is something beyond your control. You said nothing judgmental, either in your post or your responses.
One of the best and more important posts I've seen (and probably will see) this year.
Every line, every point, every question is worth reading and re-reading.

I truly hope you pin this.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@onrealityofdreams Thank you! I take that as high praise. I will pin it.
@FoxyQueen You're welcome. Thank you for posting it, and for pinning it.
Fieldmaster · 46-50, M
Excellent post, very well written and, thank you for sharing. I would love part take in the conversation.!!
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Fieldmaster Feel free!
Nick1 · 61-69, M
You are right about OSHA and some regulations.
Some are in gray area. For example, if you are part of Rotary club, they have set rules but it is more like code of conducts/ ethics.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Nick1 But they are still rules. They aren't pirates lol
I reflect on my stance with every new piece of information that comes in.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@NerdyPotato That is what we should be doing. Question everything in how it relates to you. Not just blindly add it to your file cabinet of things you've gathered.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
One addition. Ethics may be set by people, society, group, organization, employer etc. and you are expected to follow.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@Nick1 those would fall under regulations, I believe. They are not part of your moral lexicon, but it is required to be adhered to. Laws are not morality. They are regulations. OSHA is not morality, it is regulations.
tenente · 36-40, M
What is your morality?

Reason, virtue, and respect for individual liberty.

Ethics wise: just putting these principles in action.

If I can’t defend them in comfort and in crisis then they aren’t worth holding.
val70 · 51-55
One word answer: biblical
val70 · 51-55
@FoxyQueen For Saint Augustine, all created things possess inherent goodness because they exist and have being, with God as the perfectly good source of all being. Evil is not a created substance but a privation of goodness, like a shadow is a "hole" in light, an absence or a lower degree of the goodness that should be present. This philosophical perspective, rooted in neoplatonism, asserts that all things originating from God are good, and their corruption or suffering comes from a turning away from God or a diminishment of their proper goodness
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
@val70 but St Augustine is not in the bible. God and Jesus have directly said to not listen to the words of men, but the words of God, regardless of how good those words are. 🤷‍♀

Again, you are free to follow what your heart wants to follow.
val70 · 51-55
@FoxyQueen I'm in good company of those that take their morality from the bible. Like goodness, there's more in substance there than anywhere else. Why then is there culturally such a difference between the light and darkness? And many more practical things that find their origines there

 
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