When i was teenager, I used to look depressed because i was depressed, a guy came and showed me care because i was depressed just to betray me later.

@Gibbon Don't want to put false hopes again in men. Tired of hoping.

I can't find positive men. 😭

@sahi81 If I had formed that outlook on all women after my failed relationships especially the financial and emotional destruction of my 2nd wife I never would have had the experience of the best relationship in my life for 11 years. She has passed and their will be no other but I have no regrets. Just appreciation for the experience so few ever find. Truth is thanks to EP we found each other.
Disappointment is around every corner and 💔 occur more often than wished. But if you close the world out especially at your age you're shutting out what unknown fate may have in store for you.

@sahi81 Think about what you said. The same fits and can be said about men. Yes there are men on both sides of the fence the ones that have made you feel the way you do then the ones that have been suckered by women and left with that feeling they'll never trust a woman again. But there ARE still good people in the world. Sometimes it takes the right environment to come across them.

@Gibbon i too think maybe i was around bad people in wrong places, that's why they were like that

@sahi81 There you go. You have every reason to keep your guard up and be cautious with everyone you meet. But when someone you meet and feel is genuine take it slow. Good relationships aren't forced they just find their own way of happening.